learnt alot from small little details that happened over the past few days.(: ♥
lesson #1: sometimes the best way to get rid of saddening stuff is to just focus on playing and getting high and crazy, instead of mentioning those stuff. when there's a reason to smile and laugh, it gives you more motivation to keep it that way, rather than focusing on sad stuff. ♥
helped out in a children's church event 'kids@play!' with Julia on sunday. though we were only serving at the registeration booth for the playground, we still got to interact with the children and it was really alot of fun!(: gained joy from just watching them playing and running around, riding those mini bikes and cars and sliding down slides...they're super cute!(: ♥ really made me love children even more.(: ♥
Julia and i testing out that vehicle which you have to control by pedalling with your hands! :D ♥ (she's really good in controlling the vehicle haha! im a complete noob on this thing...xD)
Julia looking through the fake telescope! =P ♥
Julia & Eunice!(: ♥
haha zi lian! :D ♥
reminds me of Yu Xuan hiding under the table at the bowling alley (CSC) that time HAHA.xD ♥
lesson #2: when someone makes a mistake and expects to be scolded by you, by not scolding that person, you can actually make a really great impact on him/her. and all the more that person would be willing to learn from that mistake and change.(: ♥
happened twice to the same person.(: shant mention his/her name though.
lesson #3: on the other hand, if you scold someone with an aim to make him/her stretch his limits, using the right words, it may actually motivate that person to change for the better. people can tell from the tone and words whether a scolding is out of genuine concern or just pure demoralisation.(: ♥
was chatting with Jenzi and Jermain on monday, and somehow i got reminded of the day Weisheng scolded me. he was giving me tuition a day before my chemistry test in sec 4. and i forgot everything about redox even though he had taught me very long ago. and he got very angry and just started scolding me. cant really remember the words he used, but i remember feeling motivated to work even harder after that scolding. not to prove him wrong, but rather to prove him right, that i can do better. he asked me to aim for a B3 (yeah shows how unprepared i was for that test.). in the end i got an unexpected A1!(: ♥ can never thank him enough.(: ♥
lesson #3: bringing up the past happiness helps to strengthen the current relationship you have with that person, no matter how cold your relationship is now with that person. when both parties have a common ground, it makes it easier to relate to one another, and somehow it brings people closer. there's this desire to re-live the past. and when the past happiness becomes the present, it becomes the best gift ever from heaven.(: ♥
played reversi with daddy for the first time in many many years yesterday night. really really happy to have re-lived those childhood days.(: ♥ i love you. daddy!(: ♥♥
lesson #4: gained some knowledge about bowling while i was getting my ball re-drilled. from Jason's advise and the way he took the measurements and re-drilled my ball, could really tell that he was an experienced bowler. told him all my bad habits, and when he told me the reasons for all the mistakes i've made, i was really shocked. all of them were very very very true! and i didnt notice some of them until he mentioned them to me.(: ♥
okay it's 3am i'd better get some sleep. g'night!(: ♥